Aupair's Arrival
Have your older children prepare a welcome poster. Some families put together a little welcome basket, containing toothpaste, shampoo, soap, a little candle and the like.
Initially, take the TV or music box out of the aupairs room. Reason is that young girls are often very shy in the beginning. Not having a TV in her room will encourage her to spend more time with the host family, this facilitates bonding of host family and Aupair.
Member of the Family
The aupair program is a cultural exchange program. Your Aupair is to be considered as a member of the family. Always invite her to family outings and activities. Just like you would if she would be your little niece or cousin that lives with you as your nanny / babysitter.
Facilitate a Good Relationship
Young girls are often insecure. Positive feedback is very important. And praise is a good thing for the match. Perks such as her own TV or stereo can serve as rewards during the program year.
It is suggested that you infrequently reward your aupair for a job well done with ie. Starbucks gift certificate, Old Navy gift card, or ticket to the movies, etc.
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